If people are here because they care THEN SHOW IT!!!!! I will admit at first when I joined, I was right up there saying "how could she have let the SOs around....how could she have not watched her daughter....blah, balh blah BLAH!!!!
Once the intial shock of all that wore off, then my thoughts went to what I could do as a citizen and as a parent myself to help bring this child home...I acted. I got my share of crap for doing what I did, but it was worth it because trying to do something was better than sitting back and pointing fingers.
We know, this sweet child was found, sadly dead. How is sitting here pointing fingers helping her now? She is gone, people messed up, mistakes were made. Yes, poor little Nevaeh paid the price on some of these mistakes. There is not anything anyone can do to change any of this. Going on public rampages against JB and the family isn't changing the fact Nevaeh is gone. It doesn't matter how much ranting and raving about how "we'd have done it differently", Nevaeh is in Heaven now.
Really at this point, LE needs to do their jobs and find who did this to that sweet little girl. This is a MUST!
This family needs some PEACE to grieve. They do not need the peanut gallery saying what is the wrong and right way to do this. There is no guideline on grief. You may think that you would react differently if this happened to you, it did not BE GLAD. Losing a child is the single most horrible thing any family can endure, this I know as fact. I could not imagine and I pray that I never have to live that horror like Nevaeh's family has.
Many here are so out for justice that they will stop at nothing to get it, even if they could be wrong in their opinions. Has anyone stopped and thought "what if" even despite what we see on TV, read and hear?
Saturday little Nevaeh is getting laid to rest. This little girl deserves a princess style send off from the entire community, not a bunch of hate mongers who want to add to the hurt and pain that her family is already feeling.
I hope everyone can get their hate and anger out right now, because THERE IS NO ROOM FOR ANY OF THAT CRAP ON SATURDAY!!!!! WHO CARES WHAT ANYONE'S OPINIONS ARE ABOUT ANYONE IN THE FAMILY. THIS KID DESERVES THIS!!!!!!!!!! HER FAMILY DOES TOO. I strongly suggest that if you can't be civil on Saturday then please, stay home.
Hang up your theories and suspicions for a day, be decent, if for any reason because it's the right thing to do.