Stressed beyond belief!

My family reunion is tomorrow and I feel like I'm forgetting something.
Of course, we waited till the last minute to do EVERYTHING and now I'm feeling the pain and stress.
The nightmares I've been having about anything and everything that can go wrong, DOES go wrong, isn't helping matters much.
I really hope things go smoothly.
And to top it off, my grandma is in the hospital... she's pretty bad and we don't know how much longer she'll last. She'll be 86 tomorrow.

Too much flooding my brain....