But, MomEm, then how will we know who the winner is??
We're all winners just for trying, right?!?!?!
Well, really, at one point someone started something like "here's your very own thread for fighting". I'm sure its buried in the Misc section, and its kind of pointless to read because a lot of posts were deleted so you have to piece it together reading replies that include quotes from those messages that were deleted.
So I was given that advice, and I thought I would pass it back on. MomEm